Ask HN: My colleague had a tantrum over a simple question, what would you do?

hey, not an engineer but this could happen to any teams.

If you are doing this two things, you should do well.

1. Take care of yourself first. It is easier to act the right way and manage any situation when you are mentally and physically fit.

2. Take a step back and count your breath before reacting. Always assume the other person is hungry, stressed, have family issues, anything. Do not take any thing personally. Give yourself space and address this later.

Also show an effort in your questioning that you research well and could not find the anwser.