Ask HN: This is not the place for political discourse..so where is?

I've been on HN since 2008. As an engineer is a goto resource for me but I've also come to respect the fact that we are focused on certain topics and that's what makes it great. I guess my question is, where does one go to discuss political and world issues with similar respect and tolerance? I do not think X or other platforms promote that in the right way. It's more like shouting and slander as opposed to respect and understanding. Thoughts?