She Has Good Looks and Attractive to Me

At some instances one might find out that something is not correct. I’m in a predicament that’s eating me so much alive and to start let me state already, I admit it from my heart that my actions were off beam. As shameful, even if they are. And now, I’m muddled about what steps to take next in this situation.

Take into consideration I’m a married man. Alongside I live with my spouse and a young lady who is related to her closely. Several occasions she came to be with us. She came to live with us after completing her college, mainly to help around the house chores since both my wife and I are extremely busy people somewhere and we mighty not catch up some issues. Men’s have a sharp and created to dedicate. I know If you see her, you’d probably see things from my point of view without the fear of contradiction, she’s so good looking and beautiful as you think of beautiful. 

I have noted over time, I started developing feelings for her so crazy and I went ahead to act on them without any consulting my spouse because you know love without action is often labeled to be ill by these Gen Z’s as worthless, or “talk short of do” or simply just a sensation so I acted on them without my clear conscience.

First thing first, I made sure to make her feel harmless and made undisclosed plans for her I never discussed with my wife at any instance. I want you to establish a clear connection of these ideas. Her academic results weren’t great after school, and as a man in love you know, I decided I’d go all out to help her secure a steady future for her. Note that I genuinely desired the best for her because I really like her like nobody business. 

Similarly, somehow, my wife discovered the hidden affair because she had been interfering and found the whole thing. For now, I know you know what might will happen even if you’re the one as a man. She confronted us with serious and confidential tactics to question our affairs. We denied it at first co clear a ragged terrain for secrecy, but the truth has a way of resurfacing without even further covering. 

Be very careful with the notion of a wife catching up her lover in mind. Here things escalated again and this time my wife threatened to leave the marriage it’s a connection that will let us understand how it started. Now we got our relatives involved and my parents in particular were deeply disappointed and hopeless.  I did not deserve this but I got in without my clear consent. They gave me the rebuke of a lifetime which I cannot forget. Furthermore, things calmed down a bit after that to easy our attention and we returned home and I made separate possibilities to both my wife and the house help because candidly as selfish as it sounds, I am still passionately tied to both of them completely.

Notice then, now here’s the question: the house help has a new ‘guy’ in her life and of course, it has devastated me completely. I have strategies for her and dream of helping her become someone worth. As per now I’m stuck questioning should I just let her go and forget everything or should I contest for the chance to help her scope those goals I was dreamt for? She says she still sweethearts me. 

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Notice, she knows how much I care for her. Then maybe she sees that I’m in a position to support her journey henceforth. In contrary, it’s not the same to any further extent. She’s distant girl now. At all times on the phone with this new dude. I feel ignored and replaced completely.

Lastly, I’m torn, confused and ashamed by her. I know I’ve been self-centered. As a man I want to stop feeling like this anymore. As per now I want to be free from this emotive tug-of-war, but I don’t know how to, please advise.

Emack

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