There's Always a Third Way

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30 Jun, 2025

It's happening quite some times recently that I find myself in between of 2 choices. Both of which I don't particularly like. Either because I feel they won't make me happy or also just because I feel forced to choose between what "Life" has given me.

This narrative reinforces with time in this situations, until you either accept one of this 2 options...or create a third one. Well, not actually "create" like you could bend reality. More like bending perception. Changing point of view. Re-enabling some possibilities that have always been there, next to you, but that your brain stopped considering because it was too busy going towards some kind of goal with a premeditated path.

That's the issue. The premeditation. How flexible are we to events of "Life"? Can we adjust or we complain and go with the most immediate alternative regardless of what we truly want?

I've done this mistake at least once and is not pleasure what comes with it at the end. Maybe some temporary relief from not having to pick or put a lot more effort to move on with your life. But in the end is gonna hurt.

I don't know if now I learnt the lesson completely, but I'm at least working hard to escape the situation I've built around me for which I didn't feel good at all last year. Some changes are intentional, some are not, some are just pure luck.

Premeditation and flexibility should be closer in the vector space of words